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The UKFibromyalgia Forums • View topic - Hi i'm new and need advice please.
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Re: Hi i'm new and need advice please.

PostPosted: Sun Jul 17, 2011 11:09 am
by whitebutterflies
Just like to say a huge thank you to everyone who replied and gave advice/support. I dont usually have a good experience with these forum's im usually ignored lol.

Anyway bf has said that he will use the forum through me, which is good hes now asking and looking for help advice for himself which makes me very :D .

Im going to sit and make the list of all his symptoms this week with him, and i will refuse to be ignored now. Bf has lost his fight when it comes to gp's me on the other hand hasnt and i will not bow down any longer i will get him seen to and treated properly.

Thanks again to everyone who helped means a lot to us both. Bf may register himself at some point :clap:

Re: Hi i'm new and need advice please.

PostPosted: Sun Jul 17, 2011 11:20 am
by whitebutterflies
I'm a bit concerned though he admitted last night he had had thoughts of ending our relationship, because he doesnt think it's fair to make me or the kids suffer. I dont see it this way and i defo dont see it as huge life changes like he does.

hings will change yes but i dont think our relationship will change as a result of his illness. Maybe he's scared that i will leave him which is silly but i guess he has his own fears right now. I'm hoping his thoughts like this will settle in time, and we can move forward from this, and well just get on with it i guess.

Re: Hi i'm new and need advice please.

PostPosted: Sun Jul 17, 2011 11:30 am
by SuziM
He's very lucky to have you fighting in his corner! You obviously love him very much and that's what people who are 'special' :crazy: need!!! Hopefully he will soon develop our 'laugh or you'll cry' sense of humour that reallt keeps your spirits up....if I couldn't laugh at myself I'd probably be a lot worse off than I am!! It's harder for a young man I suppose...but I'm sure with your help he'll get there!!! :blowkiss: ...
oh dear..I just read your last post...he's very down isn't he...I have to admit to sometimes feeling a burden to my family...I guess it comes with the teritory! Mention his frame of mind to your doc....depression is common with illnesses such as ours...it's not a mental issue, its chemical...my hubby is an expert at snapping me out of it....just tell him how much you and the kids need him, and tell him good times follow bad! Big hugs flower...I feel for you :hugs:

Re: Hi i'm new and need advice please.

PostPosted: Sun Jul 17, 2011 12:19 pm
by FluppyPuffy

Re: Hi i'm new and need advice please.

PostPosted: Sun Jul 17, 2011 1:00 pm
by whitebutterflies
Thank you so much for your kind words i wouldnt let him go without a fight anyway :D so hes stuck with me :tongueout:

We will get through this it will take time but we will im hopeful for good things and happier days as well as the bad and low.

I think plenty of hugs and reassurance will be good.

Re: Hi i'm new and need advice please.

PostPosted: Sun Jul 17, 2011 1:17 pm
by whitebutterflies
Forgot to ask does any one know if FM is hereditary???????????

Re: Hi i'm new and need advice please.

PostPosted: Sun Jul 17, 2011 1:46 pm
by FluppyPuffy
There is a lot that is still unknown about FM, including if it is hereditary. However, there are members who have relatives with it, so altho there isn't a definite yes or no answer, we think there is something in the idea of it being hereditary or being passed on genetically.

There's not much chance of you being ignored on here, as you've hopefully seen :wave: :wave: :wave: Even if we don't have an answer for what you you are asking, we still tend to leave a reply, even if it's just to say :goodluck2: or give you a few :grouphug: :hugs: as well as breaking out the [chocolate] [chocolate] :wine: :wine: :twodrinking1: :twodrinking1: :beer: :beer: :twodrinking2: :twodrinking2:

As well as all the info, advice and things, we also have the odd outbreaks of :crazy: :crazy: :crazy: :crazy: :crazy: :crazy: :crazy: :crazy: :crazy: :crazy: :crazy: :crazy: :crazy: :crazy: :crazy: :crazy: :crazy: to help get us thru the day as :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: is always better than :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: so feel free to join in :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap:

Re: Hi i'm new and need advice please.

PostPosted: Sun Jul 17, 2011 1:54 pm
by whitebutterflies
thank you your post defo made me lol :clap:

Re: Hi i'm new and need advice please.

PostPosted: Sun Jul 17, 2011 2:45 pm
by FluppyPuffy
YAY!!! :clap: :clap: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Re: Hi i'm new and need advice please.

PostPosted: Sun Jul 17, 2011 3:11 pm
by denys
Good for you, stick with him and he'll get over this bit. sometimes its hard to make the effort and so it seems easier to push everyone away sounds like he'd have a hard job shaking you off :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: Dont ever worry about being ignored on here, we're far to nosy to ignore anyone :tongueout: :tongueout: :tongueout: :tongueout: :tongueout:

Re: Hi i'm new and need advice please.

PostPosted: Sun Jul 17, 2011 3:24 pm
by whitebutterflies
:clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: so glad everyone is too nosey to ignore me yay. Hahahaha.

Yes will damn hard for him to shake me off lol im like a bad penny :tongueout: :tongueout:

Re: Hi i'm new and need advice please.

PostPosted: Sun Jul 17, 2011 3:29 pm
by FluppyPuffy
Good for you!! Altho he may not say much about it, having support and reassurance from someone can make a huge difference :grouphug:

Re: Hi i'm new and need advice please.

PostPosted: Sun Jul 17, 2011 3:43 pm
by whitebutterflies
Today is a good day took your advice and had a read through the brain fog posts and they have had us lol-ing for a while bf even admitted to one of his episodes and we lol-d together over it. Nice to see him laugh :D :D :D :D :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap:

This forum has been more help than any member could ever imagine with out it doubt he would be as keen to open up and its good hes not taken some stuff too seriously today yay :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Re: Hi i'm new and need advice please.

PostPosted: Sun Jul 17, 2011 4:16 pm
by denys
Glad the forum is helping laughter is definitely the best way through it :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap:

Re: Hi i'm new and need advice please.

PostPosted: Sun Jul 17, 2011 4:27 pm
by whitebutterflies
I agree it's definatly the best medicine :D :D :D

Here's to more good day's :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: