
to the forum sparky
Sorry to hear how things are for you at the moment, fatigue seems to be one of the major problems for a lot of us

Not sure what to suggest about it tho as I'm still trying to get that bit to behave and that's after 12 years of living with this
I think we've all had the same thoughts and feelings that you're having. I know my failure, guilt and lazy demons sometimes get the better of things, even tho my OH doesn't say anything about how I am. To me, most of it seems to stem from just me, and how I think I should be rather than how I actually am. I know it's difficult, but as MB has mentioned, being a little kinder to ourselves can help, along with knowing what our capabilities are and working with them rather than battling uphill with them every day
WRT your doglet, could you go out in your leccy chair to walk him??? Just a thought, or if doglet isn't too good or unsure of the chair, go out with both of them when hubby walks the doglet so doglet gets used to the chair and you get to a point where you can go out in your chair with doglet. Also, mental stimulation can be just as tiring for our waggy friends as a walk, so using treats and/or part of his food allowance in things like treat dispensing toys, or even old boxes and things can help as it means they have to work to get the reward.
There's all sorts of info and advice across the various parts of the forum, maybe having a bit of a look thru things could throw up some helpful suggestions for you. And you can ask about things as well, it doesn't usually take too long for someone to

along with a reply. With the different members on here, there's a good chance that someone will have experienced something similar to what you're wanting to know about
